yeah this is something random i wanna bring up since im kinda bored..
well.. my good friend recently went through a break up.. he told us on that day itself and we got drunk together and slept over at my place that night..
who is not important.. but why and how is the thing im gonna comment about..
well.. long story short.. break ups usually happens because of misunderstandings..
jealousy is usually the suspect, but sometimes, people just grow far apart..
and guys are always viewed as the culprits.. even if it's the girl who called for the break-up.. the finger pointing always ends up with the boy because he was the root of everything..
well actually.. i think men show when they're jealous, but women are more jealous but they just keep it to themselves.. and through jealousy, it slowly transform a perfect relationship into a rocky one..
couples must believe in one another, and not be suspicious over small matters..
sacrifice is also very important.. and i think men sacrifice more.. im not being bias or anything, but i think men are susposed to sacrifice more.. we were made to protect women in everyway we can, at least that is what i think..
women are allowed to cry over someone's shoulder, but for men, it's a big no-no..
we men are suppose to show that we're macho and impervios to hurt and pain, both physically and mentally, however it's a wrong mindset..
men are sometimes fragile too.. i admit.. i had my times.. and it wasn't easy..
men are sensitive too ( to those who disagree, 2 middle fingers for you.. oo0oo oo0oo NA~!)
even the smallest thing might cause a slight tinge or singe in the heart, which might grow worse..
and i pity my friend.. the few of us close friends know his situation, and we blame neither the guy nor the girl..
however.. the girl's friends cant stop blabbering about him being wrong and so.. and making it public too..
well.. i guess problems like these are best left to the "victims" to figure out, although sharing it with close friends which would not tell the whole world ( especially the guy/girl who just broke up with their friend ) about how they feel and "shower" him/her with their thoughts..
so.. love is a crazy thing to get involved in..
it can make you feel like you're flying.. and make you smile even though everything is going wrong for you that day.. or make you get out of bed in the morning ( ^^ )..
however it can make u feel like your heart is shatterred into a million-ga-zillion pieces.. make you cry alone in your room.. or just make you feel like slamming your head against the wall..
however.. it is love that will eventually solve everything.. love is everything.. love makes the world go round..
and im glad im in love.. Thank You.
<3 GWEN
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